Committing The foundation of a marriage, evidenced in dedication and sense of "us"
Connecting The bonding that happens with physical closeness, emotional openness and relational safety
Cooperating How couples can work together in light differences in family tree, brain structure, gender and personality
Confronting How to communicate needs for behavior change in a healthy, productive manner
Confiding Living in radical honesty in order to remain transparent, forgiving and without unexpressed regrets